Today, Coach Gerry would like to give you viewers more spiritual truths that will build you up when facing a bully.
Everything the bully says is false. Bullies look for weaknesses, sensitivities, or insecurities so they can exploit that person. Bully prey on people they can isolate which could include the new kid at school or neighborhood or teen on the internet. Isolating yourself from other people over long periods of time is not a good thing.
Key Point: When a bully picks on you, it isn’t about you or any flaws you might have, it is about the Bully’s own issues. The bully’s intention is to intimidate, tease or poke fun of someone. It is a form of deception and is labeled as faulty thinking. These labels that the bully will attempt to use are never good to the other person.
The words they use are false not truthful. The belittling or the words that the bully uses is never from a form of uplifting of enhancing the child, teen or adult.
Building strength requires the intimidated person to examine the words and then say, This is not truth about me. The inner truth of the person, even young children come from someone who says, this is not fair or correct. The bully in the classroom, playground, or any setting will never be liked by others. This one “Truth” can build leverage against the bully. In general society does not like the bully. This is why a bully should be confronted when the behavior occurs. Proactive action on the part of a teacher, adult, parents, youth directors, therapists, religious leaders should occur promptly. This is where the solution begins.
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